Just Rambling

When I see life going on around me, families doing things together, kids walking their dog, playing in parks and hanging out in the mall, I can’t help but think of how unfair it is. And EVERYTIME the next thought that comes into my mind is how many times I have said to my kids “life’s not fair”. Talk about eating your words. It is so true you cannot take back things you say to loved ones. And believe me when I say, some of those things may very well come back to haunt you. As parents, spouses, sons and daughters, even friends, we say things in moments of anger or frustration that hurt.
I can’t help but wonder, why do we say “life’s not fair”? Why isn’t it? And is it truly that life is not fair or is it us, the people in it? We make our own lives, we CHOOSE our paths and to blame issues on the fairness of the universe is foolish. If we continue to do so, we are not taking responsibility for the outcome of our journey in this life.. So my point is this: be careful what you say, take responsibility for your life, show our children that We can have fairness, love, and contentment.. Cherish your moments with those you love, relish in your time with your self and find the spirit that speaks to your heart. The answers will come.